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    Serena Williams calls financial abuse a form of domestic violence in a new video

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi October 14, 2018

    Serena Williams is using her celebrity to spotlight a common but little understood form of domestic violence: financial abuse.

    The tennis superstar and woman’s advocate stars in a new public-service video called “Invisible Weapon” from the Allstate Foundation Purple Purse campaign that contrasts the visible signs of physical abuse with the hidden ones of financial abuse.

    Financial abuse is when the abuser controls access to money, including hiding assets, keeping a victim to get a job or denying them access to a bank or credit card account.

    The video also highlights the prevalence of this abuse; 99 percent of domestic violence victims also suffer some sort of financial abuse. Purple Purse offered USA TODAY an exclusive look at the video.

    Serena’s involvement

    Williams, who spoke to USA TODAY about her role, said she knew people in her life who had been victims of domestic abuse. Still, the 99-percent figure of financial abuse struck her.

    “That is an incredibly high number,” Williams noted. “So, I’m thinking of people I knew in the past, that were probably experiencing this too,” she said, adding “so that’s even more reason to lift my voice,” for this cause.

    This is Williams’ second year acting as an ambassador for Purple Purse. Last year, she designed a limited-edition handbag for the foundation’s Purple Purse Challenge, an annual fundraising competition in October. This year, she created a purple backpack.

    Williams is also working on the foundation’s anti-domestic violence mural project that kicked off this summer and goes through the end of October. The goal is to get people talking about domestic violence on social media.

    “The foundation helps women find a way out of abuse through financial education,” Williams said. “This is something that affects so many women and so many people and it’s important to raise more awareness.”

    What is financial abuse?

    Hard to spot, financial abuse is “a control tactic that keeps victims trapped in abusive relationships,” said Vicky Dinges, head of Purple Purse Vicky Dinges and Allstate’s senior vice president of corporate relations.

    For instance, one survivor Dinges knows had a husband who wouldn’t let her hold a job and controlled the household spending, including limiting how much she could use for groceries. During one trip to a store, a cashier asked the woman if she wanted to “round up” her grocery purchase to get cash back.

    “A light bulb went off and she began getting $5 or $10 each week, hiding the cash in a box of tampons, which she reasoned her husband would never find,” Dinges said. After two years, the woman saved enough to hire an attorney and file for divorce.

    Signs of financial abuse

    Part of the problem is the lack of awareness. Nearly 50 percent of respondents in a Purple Purse survey this year didn’t know that financial abuse is a form of domestic violence. But more than four out of five believe that not having enough money would make it very or extremely difficult to leave an abusive relationship.

    While financial abuse almost always accompanies another form of abuse – physical, sexual or emotional – it can also exist on its own. Here are red flags that a loved one may be in a financially abusive relationship.

    • They are not allowed to get a job.
    • They can’t access money on their own.
    • They aren’t allowed to have credit cards.
    • Their spending is tightly monitored or restricted by their partner.
    • They are overly worried about how their partner will react to everyday purchases.

    If you or a loved one is in an abusive relationship, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or TTY 1-800-787-3224 for help. If you want to help survivors of domestic violence, you can donate to nonprofits through PurplePurse.com.

    https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/2018/10/03/serena-williams-financial-abuse-domestic-violence-video/1501821002/
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    Serena Williams Raises Awareness of Financial Abuse in Powerful New Video

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi October 14, 2018October 14, 2018

    Rachel Hosie | @rachel_hosie | Thursday 4 October 2018 11:55 Financial abuse is an invisible weapon’ Domestic abuse affects one in four women and…

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    Evan Stark, Rutgers University, Author, “Coercive Control”

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi September 18, 2018October 14, 2018
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    No Shots Fired

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi September 18, 2018September 18, 2018

    In coercive control, men use guns to threaten, manipulate, and traumatize their intimate partners, without ever pulling a trigger. BY JENNIFER…

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    Understanding Coercive Control with Professor Evan Stark

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 16, 2018August 16, 2018
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    NY Times: With Coercive Control, the Abuse Is Psychological

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    BY ABBY ELLIN | JULY 11, 2016 12:45 PM | Lisa Fontes’s ex-boyfriend never punched her, or pulled her hair. But…

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    Pyschology Today: Controlling Your Partner Is Illegal, But Not in the U.S.

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    Lisa Aronson Fontes Ph.D. | Invisible Chains | February 17, 2017 Co authored with Evan Stark, PhD., author of Coercive Control: How Men…

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    Huffington Post: It Felt Like Love (But It Was Coercive Control)

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    By Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD | 06/10/2015 | As my marriage of two decades withered into a separation, my charming newly-divorced…

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    Professor Evan Stark: Coercive Control and Children

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018
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    UK Government: Coercive or controlling behaviour now a crime

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    From:Home Office and The Rt Hon Karen Bradley MP | 29 December 2015 |  Victims who would otherwise be subjected to sustained patterns…

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    The Cut: A Domestic-Violence Expert on Eric Schneiderman and ‘Coercive Control’

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    In coercive control abuse, you have a range of acts over time, a broad range of non-consensual and non-reciprocal tactics…

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    Psychology Today: When Relationship Abuse Is Hard to Recognize – Signs of coercive control are hard to spot; support and information will help.

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    People subject to coercive control grow anxious and afraid. Coercive control strips away their independence, sense of self, and basic rights, such…

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    The New Yorker: Four Women Accuse New York’s Attorney General of Physical Abuse

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 15, 2018

    Evan Stark, a forensic social worker and an emeritus professor at Rutgers, is the author of a landmark book, “Coercive…

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    Research in Practice: Coercive control: the driving force behind domestic abuse

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 15, 2018

    It’s not a simple matter either; using controlling or coercive behaviour is a deliberate act which reduces an individual’s space…

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    WebMD: What Is Coercive Control in a Relationship?

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 15, 2018

    But in general, the abused are female and their tormenters, men. The abused are usually not outwardly passive. Many are…

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    Psychology Today: “She Has No Money; She’ll Come Crawling Back.” NOT!

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 16, 2018

    By Lisa Aronson Fontes Ph.D. | July 10, 2016 | He takes her paycheck and she has to beg him…

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    Cosmopolitan UK Edition: 10 ways to spot coercive control | Abuse doesn’t have to be physical.

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018August 15, 2018

    By SOPHIE GODDARD | July 24, 2018 | Nearly three years ago, the government introduced a new domestic abuse offence of…

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    Huffington Post: Recovering From a Controlling Relationship: Free at Last!

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 15, 2018

    By Lisa Aronson Fontes, PhD | 06/12/2015 | It takes a long time to recover from a relationship where you are…

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    Author Examines Coercive Control as Form of Abuse in Relationships

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 14, 2018August 16, 2018

    We had a chance to interview Dr. Lisa Fontes, author of Invisible Chains: Overcoming Coercive Control in Your Intimate Relationship, about…

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    Oxford University Press: From domestic violence to coercive control

    by coercivecontrol_x17tsi August 14, 2018August 16, 2018

    This phrase encompasses the numerous ways in which abusive men exploit their female partners (financially, sexually, etc.); deprive them of…

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Serena Williams Video on Financial Abuse in Coercive Control and Domestic Violence Relationships

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wtsMtP5Wx08

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